General Dating Safety Guidelines and Code of Conduct:

At Partner Up Hawaii, we are committed to fostering a safe, respectful, and enjoyable environment for all participants in our matchmaking services. This Code of Conduct outlines the expectations for behavior and the principles that guide our community. We expect all members to adhere to these guidelines to ensure that everyone feels comfortable and safe during the matchmaking process and their dating experiences.

1. Respectful Communication

Be respectful: Communicate with others in a courteous, respectful, and considerate manner. Rude, aggressive, or disrespectful behavior will not be tolerated.
Active listening: Show interest in your date’s views, opinions, and experiences. Avoid interrupting, monopolizing the conversation, or dismissing their feelings or beliefs.
Clear boundaries: Respect personal boundaries at all times. If someone expresses discomfort or disinterest, do not persist in the conversation or in asking them out.

2. Consent and Personal Autonomy

Mutual consent: Always seek clear, enthusiastic consent in all interactions, including verbal, emotional, and physical interactions. No means no, and silence or hesitation should be interpreted as a no.
Physical contact: Physical interaction should only happen when both parties are comfortable, and it must always be consensual.
Respect privacy: Do not pressure anyone to share personal details they are not comfortable discussing.

3. Honesty and Transparency

Be truthful: Be honest about your intentions, relationship status, and any relevant personal details. Misrepresenting yourself or lying to others is strictly prohibited.
Profile authenticity: Your profile and information provided to Partner Up Hawaii must reflect your true self. Misleading profiles are grounds for removal from the service.
No ghosting: If you’re not interested in pursuing a connection further, politely communicate this. Ghosting can hurt feelings and lead to misunderstandings.

4. Discrimination and Harassment

Zero tolerance for discrimination: Discriminatory behavior or language based on race, gender, sexual orientation, religion, age, disability, or any other personal attribute is prohibited.
Harassment: Any form of harassment, including unwelcome attention, offensive remarks, or invasive questioning, is strictly forbidden. This includes both online interactions and in-person meetings.

5. Safety and Security

Meet in public: For initial meetings, always choose a public space where you feel safe. Avoid isolated or private locations.
Trust your instincts: If something feels off or uncomfortable during an interaction or date, trust your intuition. You are encouraged to end the interaction if you feel unsafe.
Report concerns: If you experience or witness inappropriate behavior, harassment, or any violation of this code of conduct, report it immediately to Partner Up Hawaii staff.

6. Confidentiality and Respect for Privacy

Respect for privacy: Do not share someone’s personal information (such as phone numbers, addresses, or social media accounts) without their explicit permission.
Confidentiality: Maintain the confidentiality of your matches and their private lives, both during and after your interaction.

7. No Solicitation or Fraud

No commercial use: Our matchmaking service is for genuine connections and relationships. Soliciting money, goods, services, or promoting businesses is strictly forbidden.
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Remember, prioritize your safety and well-being.
Meet in Public Places: Opt for public venues like cafes, restaurants, or parks for initial dates.
Inform a Friend: Share your whereabouts and plans with a trusted person. Keep your phone charged and accessible.
Arrange Transportation: Use your own vehicle or public transport. Avoid accepting rides from new acquaintances.
Be mindful of your drink and belongings. Limit alcohol intake and be mindful of your drink to avoid tampering.
Trust Your Instincts: If anything feels uncomfortable, don't hesitate to leave.
Use Reputable Dating Platforms: Stick to well-known apps with safety features. Report any suspicious activity.
Verify Information: Look up the person online before meeting. Be cautious if they resist sharing basic details.
Protect Personal Information: Avoid divulging sensitive details early on.
Have an Exit Plan: Plan how to leave the date if necessary.
Stay Visible: Prefer public spaces over private ones until you feel comfortable.
Report any suspicious behavior promptly.
Sexual Health & Consent: Use protection and get tested regularly for STIs.
Communicate openly with your partner about sexual health and consent.
In case of immediate danger, contact local law enforcement.

*Our Guarantee. The information we provide regarding other individuals is reliable to the best of our knowledge. Everyone has their identity, age and photos verified and is subject to public record background checks. If information we provide is found to be inaccurate we discount the match and try again. We cannot guarantee or promise a certain outcome or result from matchmaking or coaching. Nothing we say or do can be construed as a guarantee about the outcome of your experience. Our past or future comments about the outcome of your experience, potential matches, estimates of fees and time frames or our opinions are not guarantees. Actual fees and time frames may vary from the estimates given.